This is an older article written by Alfie Kohn that is highly recommended because it explains why rewards and punishments are not useful techniques to use in parenting.
I highly recommend reading the article below because it is still quite relevant today. Mothers are still told that breast is best despite the research and the need to support what’s best for mothers.
This is article I wrote for the National Association of Social Works site, Help Starts Here on how to take a breath and raise kids with confidence and heart.
This is a highly recommended interview with John Gottman, a couples therapist and psychologist and who relays important information to help couples communicate and connect based on years of research.