While it may seem counterintuitive, it is actually not always helpful to say “Good job!” to your toddler or child. Here’s why.
Here is an interview I did a while back with Glennon Gordon, LICSW about neurofeedback and how it can be a useful adjunct to therapy. This is still quite relevant because it is a good alternative or helpful complement to medication and talk therapy.
This is an older article written by Alfie Kohn that is highly recommended because it explains why rewards and punishments are not useful techniques to use in parenting.
I highly recommend reading the article below because it is still quite relevant today. Mothers are still told that breast is best despite the research and the need to support what’s best for mothers.